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Free Time, What's That?

There are never enough hours in a day.
"What, extra time to spend on myself? Are you crazy? That doesn't exist in my world!"

Why is it, that when it comes to bettering ourselves, we always 'put it off'? We can easily see where other people are going wrong.

("I know exactly what you need to do...")

We see the changes they need to make.

("He's not worthy of you, you should 'dump him'. You'll be much better off without him.")

We also see how to fix their problems.

("You need to eat healthier, start exercising and stop drinking so much.")

But when it comes to ourselves, we simply 'bury our heads in the sand' or make excuses,

(I'm too busy right now.)

(I'll start it next week.)

(How will I have time to add another thing to my ever-expanding daily 'to do' list?)

(What, extra time to spend on myself? Are you crazy? That doesn't exist in my world!)

We have every reason to feel this way. Sometimes it's as if our lives are spinning out of control, like we don't even have a minute to catch our breath. For me, there are never enough hours in a day and the thought of putting my feet up for an evening of Netflix is like a dream that could never come true.

The thing is, we can ALWAYS make more time. Weirdly, over the years, I've found that the busier I am, the more I get done. Perhaps it's because when we're really busy, we're in 'fast mode' and on days when we don't have a lot to do, our pace is much slower so we get less accomplished.

I'm a big believer in being the best you can be. We can ALWAYS be bettering ourselves. In my mind, I th